WTF I'm Freaking To: Sounds for Intimacy + Creativity (Playlist)
Blame it on my Scorpio Moon…
Can we talk about it???? I hope it’s not a secret that I f**k. I mean, I do have two KIDS. I always knew I would someday share this playlist and the day has come.
Music truly is how I get through my days and my nights. There’s a range of moods depending on the activity and for times of intimacy, it’s gotta be just right. (Sorry, I’m neurotic).
I have this go-to collection of songs for partnered or solo play but actually this music is not exclusive for sex. To be clear I’m also freaking it when I am cooking, gardening, dancing, painting, writing… My “freaking” mood might catalyze me to intimately creating art, basking in the beauty of life, or deepening into anointing rituals. That being said…
Music is the bridge that could make or break my sexual experiences. Having music in the bedroom and finessing the sounds has especially helped bring me from trauma-riddled maidenhood to transmuted, embodied mother.
I don’t wanna get too much into that right now, you can find more of that journey in my sacral chakra course but what I DO wanna do is tell y’all what the freak I’m freaking to, compare notes, and hope that you find a gem or two that get you feeling groovy.
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This playlist is for the femmes that got a li’l dog in em. These are the songs I can settle into and ride the rhythm (strong base required). Most have a tempo I can stroke to and some of these songs could even induce my ovulation. It might go without saying but this curation pairs wonerfully with a little cannabis…
Without more teasing, you can stop reading and get straight to listening by clicking here.
My 💗 X X X 💗 playlist straight up: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2NADmy9yI5aYndWCwGH6dC?si=vp3WtBRvQpqxnLCCwslTBg&utm_source=copy-link&pi=jyk3yNGxSAW24
Or if you want a written preview, a bit of foreplay if you will, you can keep skimming for my cliff notes and commentary.
TOP ARTISTS
Honestly, Spyder550 is the artist featured most often. Sometimes I just play his music outright because the tempo is the slowness I like.
Enigma Beats — I’ve said it before and i’ll say it again … his songs always make me feel like I just walked into the party and in slow mo. if i’m wanting to lock in, I’ll play his SoundCloud sets Envision the Lotus or Xiazahu. If this is on my husband Nate already knows what’s UP.
RANDOM SONG COMMENTARY
Intimacy Dub by Ken Fan, Skye Walker — strings with an undercurrent of psyche exploration
Poppy Seeds by Thriftworks — softens me
Terror of Dees Fokrs - Remix by Sunkenghost — warning: wub town
Bomba by Cesco — instant feral
It’s Funny How — locking in
Divide by Supertask — peak to peak on
When Muses Return by Ten Walls — it’s a journey
Istanbul Dubphonics by Shaman’s Dream, Drumspyder — potential to harmonize, hum and tone the throat to(o)
It’s Not Over by ZappBeats — has me sliding down the wall
SCORPIO MOON SHOUT OUT
My fellow Scorpio Moon sister, Jess said it best in terms of her music taste and is a commonality between us, “I like it a little bit spooky.” I’d like to shout her out for mining much of the music or sending directions for rabbit holes I fall into sonically. This blog is a little vulnerable but I have a strong feeling my lunar Scorpios will vibe.
FINAL NOTES
Divine Feminine and Sexual/Creative Healing
Connecting to each of our divine feminine essences is our (rewarding) responsibility. From this place we touch psychic depth, expand our emotional capacities and conjure life force energy. Where we direct it is our choosing. I gained access to taproots of my femininity through sexual and creative healing. It was a multi-faceted, multi-year process to come out of the trauma-loop and locate pleasure and safety beyond those wounds. I will never turn my back on this power that I carry again. I willfully traverse the spaces and caverns she invites me into. Many times, I find her through something as seemingly frivolous as a playlist… Although, we know that she lives inside the folds and layers of sensuality.
However you come home to yourself is worth the adjustments necessary to get there. I cover anyone recovering from sexual trauma in a cloak of protection of the soul and tenderness for the journey out. I would consider myself restored from the torment I once mentally, physically, and psychically experienced. I share this as a glimmer of the liberation that’s possible. More of my story is recorded inside the Sacral + Surrender series you can access here. I wish you peace.
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I’d be delight if you give my XXX playlist a test run while you’re doing something prolific or even just doing the dishes and hear what sparks.